THN: Trading elbows with Mr. Hockey

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Die Titelstory des nordamerikanischen Fachmagazins "The Hockey News"

beschäftigt sich diesmal mit der Eishockeylegende Gordie Howe.



Trading elbows with Mr. Hockey


By Ken Campbell


“I’ve never had so many worries in my life. Sleepless nights. Every day is a constant reminder, what is, what was.”

– Gordie Howe in October, 2002


“Hey, when you’re talking to him, try to get him to move his hands,” says Mark Howe.


So I do. Gordie Howe holds out his massive mitts and tries to rotate

them. He can’t. The wrists that were behind more than 1,000

professional goals – and almost as many punches – have been so battered

over the years that the bones have all fused together. Combined with an

arthritic condition he suspects is hereditary, Gordie Howe is so stiff

in the wrists that he can barely swing a golf club anymore.


That didn’t stop him from shooting a 94 last summer the day before his

granddaughter was married, despite the fact he hadn’t played in three

years. “We get to the 14th hole and he said, ‘I have to try something

new,’ ” Mark recalls. “I said, ‘Why? You haven’t missed a fairway all

day.’ Straight down the middle and about 225 yards the whole day.”


Truth be told, there isn’t much keeping Gordie Howe down these days.

Not an irregular heartbeat that forced him to have an angioplasty and

stint installed five years ago. Not two artificial knees. And most

importantly, not a terrible illness to his life partner, Colleen,

combined with the near-collapse of his family business.


In fact, at 78, Howe is getting out more than he has in years. After an

estrangement with the Detroit Red Wings alumni group, Howe has returned

to the fold. He’s signing more autographs, doing more corporate and

charity events and getting back in touch with the fans who now are the

lifeblood of his livelihood.


Howe’s wife, Colleen, is in the latter stages of Pick’s Disease, a rare

degenerative brain illness that causes dementia. Colleen was first

diagnosed in 2002 and Gordie was devastated. He lost 20 pounds because

of the stress. The headaches were unbearable. The same man who always

thought he was a “tough son of a bitch” couldn’t keep his emotions in

check when he was asked about Colleen’s condition shortly after she was

diagnosed. He turned away and broke down and cried.


“Then a doctor who was nice enough told me what was going on,” Howe

says. “He told me, ‘You’ve got to get back to a normal life or you’ll

be joining her.’ ”


Unfortunately, due to her condition, Colleen has helped out. As crass

as it sounds, she is now at the stage in her disease where she is

almost in a permanent state of dementia so she doesn’t notice when

Gordie is gone. She has caregivers who are at the Howe’s home in

Bloomfield Hills, Mich., 12 hours a day. They get there at 8 a.m. and

wake her, bathe her and dress her. Before they leave for the night,

they sedate her and put her to bed.


“I hate to say it, but it’s easier to take care of her because she

sleeps 90 per cent of the time,” Howe says. “Some nights are tougher

than others, but you sit there and she’s just at peace with the world.

With Alzheimer’s, they get mean. She never got mean.”


Mark and Marty doubt their mother is aware of much of anything, but

they’re not with her every day the way Gordie is. Usually when Gordie

goes over and taps her hand, Colleen will grab it. Perhaps it’s the

undying love of a husband, but Gordie insists there is still something

there.


“We just don’t know what it is,” Howe says. “The other day, one of the

caregivers said to her, ‘Do you want a chocolate bar?’ And she said,

‘Mmmm, hmmmm,’ just like that. That’s about all you get out of her.”


Howe insists he sees his wife smile occasionally and if people are

willing to work hard enough to get through, they can do it. He gets

annoyed at caregivers who come in and talk about Colleen’s condition as

though she’s not even there.


“I’ve had people who would come around and start acting like idiots,”

Howe says. “I would say, ‘Just slow down. I don’t even understand what

you’re saying because you’re talking so quickly.’ They’d say, ‘She

doesn’t understand,’ and I’d say, ‘Like hell she doesn’t understand.

Why is she crying then?’ I would just tell them to get out of my house.


“Marty and Mark will come home and say, ‘I don’t think she knows me.’ I

say, ‘Well, sit and talk to her then.’ It takes a long time to figure

out that mind. Sometimes I can joke with her and get her to laugh. And

it’s always at the right time. It’s not a foolish laugh.”


For someone with the cycle of dependency that Howe has had for most of

his life, effectively losing his wife represented much more than just a

loss of companionship.


From a financial standpoint, Colleen treated Gordie like the crown

jewel in the family business and used Howe’s good will and appeal to

build Power Play International, the company that handles all of Howe’s

merchandising and corporate efforts.


“She was the brains, let’s face it,” he says.


Colleen was the one who fiercely fought for Howe to be paid

commensurate with his star status shortly after he found out he was

making about half the salary of Maple Leafs defenseman Bob Baun. It was

Colleen who orchestrated his comeback to play with his two sons in the

World Hockey Association. And, it was Colleen who controlled his

appearances and ensured the Howe brand would continue to generate

revenue after he retired.


After Colleen became ill, Howe placed himself under the trust of Del

Reddy, the business manager for Power Play International, and Aaron

Howard, the office manager for the company. Both were hired by Colleen

and had an up-and-down relationship with the other family members, one

that deteriorated after Colleen became unavailable and ended when both

abruptly left the company last spring. Since then, the Howes allege

that both employees wiped out all the business records and the computer

database; prevented Gordie from making appearances he wanted to do;

and, engaged in questionable business practices.


With no one to run the business, Mark, a pro scout with the Red Wings,

spent much of the summer in Detroit getting Power Play re-established.

Marty, who previously coached the AHL’s Chicago Wolves, now runs the

business from his home in Connecticut. And, Mark’s son Travis is the

office manager who takes care of the day-to-day business.


“We don’t mention Del and Aaron around him anymore,” Mark says. “The

emotional hurt they put on my father was worse than anything else. The

most important thing for our family is our father’s image and I think

they were maybe tarnishing my father’s image.”



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